Minus a month here and a week there, I spent the first 24 years of my life hating my curly hair. I'm the daughter of a biracial couple, and my Caucasian mother just didn't know what to do with the hair I had earned from my father's Antiguan roots. I spent my entire childhood in fear of the hairbrush, considering it merely a weapon that led to not only a sore scalp but weird tufts of brown fluff perching on top of my shoulders.
I was helpless, I had no idea how to style my curly hair. And this desperation led me to do some questionable things like stealing handfuls of my brother's hair gel to slick my frizzy hair into the tightest bun my arms could manage. Yep, year 8 was a dark, dark time. I would also spend most Sunday nights singeing my hair to death with pre-Ghd era hair straighteners and praying that the effect (a barely straight mane of frazzled hair the texture of crinkle-cut chips, in case you were wondering) would last the entire week.
You'd think that when I got my first job in the beauty industry, my hair fate would have changed. But no-traumatized by a childhood of desperately trying to hide the fact I had curly hair, I would physically cringe at the thought of sitting in my hairstylist's chair, and when I did, I would profusely apologize for my curls, as though they were badly behaved children.
Tired of putting up a losing fight, I decided that it was about time I embraced my curls, but I was completely clueless. Yes, I'd gone cold turkey on the Ghds, but I'd also given up the only hair routine I had ever known. But then I met Larry King, and everything changed. He's the hands behind Pixie Lott's curly transformation, and frankly, no one knows curls quite like him.
And not only did his haircut wizardry give me the confidence to wear my hair curly for the first time in, like, forever, but he also taught exactly how to dry my hair whenВ I'm in my own bathroom rather than in his salon chair.
Spurred on by this newfound love for my curls, I have now made it my mission to ask (read: interrogate) every beauty expert I come across for their advice, from the best shampoo for curly hair to how to refresh curls the morning after. After plenty of trial and error, I have nailed down the ultimate routine. And in the interest of helping a fellow curly-haired girl out, I'm willing to share it all with you. First, watch my time-lapse tutorial that shows exactly how I dry and style my curly hair, and then read on for every last tip I have to share.
Step 1: The Wash
Co-washing, reverse washing-I've tried the lot. But nothing seems to treat my curls better than a good-old-fashioned shampoo-and-conditioner combo.
But don't be led down the wrong path. вЂњOne of the most common misconceptions is that curly hair needs a smoothing shampoo, but it's just not the case,вЂќ Justine Marjan, a celebrity hairstylist and TresemmГ© global ambassador, once told me backstage at New York Fashion Week. Curly hair needs a bit of grip, not only to keep the curls in place but also to stop them falling flat throughout the day.
As for conditioner, rake it through the lengths (avoid the roots, as that'll only weigh curls down) before using a comb to eke it through before rinsing out. I shampoo once a week to stop my hair from drying out, but I use conditioner every single day.
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Step 2: The Prep
Ever since the first time I met King, I've kept my hairstyling products in the shower. Why? вЂњYou want hair to be dripping wet when you apply product, because frizz will start to appear as soon as the hair starts to dry,вЂќ he explains.
Start with a curl cream. John Frieda's Frizz-Ease Miraculous Recovery Creme Serum ($24) is the most lightweight and non-greasy serum out there, but Redken Curvaceous Ringlet Shape Perfecting Lotion ($21) is slightly heavier, making it perfect for curls that need a little more persuasion like mine. Apply a 50 dime-sized blob, and use fingertips to twist sections of the hair from the top to help the curls form.
Then scrunch an orange-sized blob (or a bit more if your hair is longer than shoulder length) ofВ KГ©rastase Discipline Mousse for Curly Hair ($37) or PureologyВ Clean Volume Mousse ($29) through the lengths. Forget the thought of crispy ringlets-this lighter-than-air mousse soon disappears, leaving only springy, defined curls in its wake.
By this point, you'll probably feel a little chilly, but when you wrap that towel around yourself, do not be tempted to touch your hair. This is vital. вЂњThe rough texture of the towel will disturb the cuticle and separate curls, leading to frizz,вЂќ adds King.
Step 3: The Drying
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Now I don't even attempt to dry my hair without theВ Ghd Air Diffuser. It has a particularly wide diameter of 15 centimeters, meaning it gives curls room to form without being blasted with hot (and damaging) air.
Gravity is your best friend here. вЂњTip your head upside down and guide sections of hair into the diffuser head, holding in place for 15 seconds before moving on to the next section,вЂќ says King. He recommends starting with the highest temperature and turning it down as hair starts to dry out.
Take it from me: avoid touching the hair with your fingers whilst drying at all costs; otherwise, you risk upsetting the curl pattern. вЂњPut your spare hand in your pocket otherwise you'll find yourself subconsciously playing with your hair,вЂќ King promises. As you'll have witnessed in the above video, I am NOT good at following my own advice on this point.
Step 4: The Refresh
I tend to restyle my hair every single day, but when time is tight, I simply refresh my curls from the day before.
вЂњSleeping on your curls can cause them to drop,вЂќ explains session stylist and founder of Session Kit, Anna Chapman. вЂњBut using a water spray to spritz hair until it's damp and then scrunching hair will revive day-old curls and bring back all that natural movement.вЂќ
I have tried every curl spray going, but I rarely get to the bottom of a bottle before becoming disappointed by its lackluster results. My go-to is Bumble and Bumble's Bb. Curl (Style)В Pre-Style/Re-Style Primer, which adds gloss to curls that have started to go a little fuzzy. But I also love Pureology'sВ Clean Volume Instant Levitation Mist.
And to finish? вЂњTry a blast of the diffuser to breathe air into the roots and give curls a little lift,вЂќ recommends King. Then, I get dressed, do my makeup and just before I leave the house, I always spritz hair with Wella Professional Eimi Mistify Me Light hairspray-it's the lightest I've ever tried.
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So I know that sounds like a lot, but I swear, it becomes second nature. Give it a go, and I reckon you'll nail your own curly hair routine too.